When it comes to love, we all have examples that we look up to. Whether you admire your parents or a celebrity couple that seems to have it all, it helps to have a clear cut example of a happy relationship. We look up to power couples like Diane von Fürstenberg and Barry Diller, Mark Zuckerberg and Priscilla Chan, or basically anyone who attends the Allen & Company “summer camp for billionaires.” These couples all have their own successful careers, but still find time to maintain enviable marriages. Here’s what power couples do differently – and how you can steal their methods to create your own successful relationship.
Everyone has been hurt at some point. Lost love can leave lasting marks on the heart, which makes it difficult to move on and form new relationships in the future. Many clients turn to Kelleher International’s matchmaking services because they don’t want to experience more heartbreak. They know we enforce a detailed screening process to get only the best matches – and the best chance at love. Lasting relationships rely on a number of factors, but one of the most important elements we evaluate is each client’s openness to love. Here is just one way to determine your relationship style and its impact on future romance:
Social media sharing always seems like a good idea at first. After all, it’s a way to catch up with old friends and share what’s happening in your lives. The key to social media is to use it sparingly. It’s fine to comment on photos and even share the occasional update about your own life, but excessive updates can actually be damaging to your life – and your relationship. Here are our matchmakers’ top reasons to keep your relationship off social media.
Our matchmakers are interested in more than just locating a quick fix for your relationship woes; our primary focus is on the quality of your relationships. One of the most popular questions we get from new members is how many dates they should plan to get while utilizing Kelleher International’s services. Our answer, while slightly unsatisfying, is the most ethical response we can provide: you will only get dates if we find compatible matches who meet your specifications. Our goal is not to set you up with dozens of random singles who happen to be searching for someone at the same time. Our process is much more detailed and involves a rigorous background check, interviews and good old fashioned patience while we search for exactly the right person for you. Our detailed process is what sets Kelleher International apart from other generic dating services that claim to have dozens of matches for you right from the start.
Topics: Self Help
More than 14,000 fireworks displays will take place across the U.S. this year, but the most special one of all is between you and your date. You don’t need fancy pyrotechnics to create the summer date of your dreams – just the right venue, the right person and a little bit of summertime magic from Kelleher International’s matchmaking services.
Topics: seasonal dates
When it comes to relationship advice, there is no one who knows more than someone who is already married. Even better: relationship advice from someone who has been happily married for decades! This is why we turned to real-life grandmas for advice to pass on to clients of our matchmaking services. Decades of timeless knowledge about dating can’t be wrong. Sometimes the tried-and-true method is just better. Here’s what our sources recommend for a classic dating experience that will impress your date!
The idea of dating is intimidating to many: forced conversations over dinner, uncertainty about your date and the pressure to make an instant connection all add up. It’s not easy to fall in love! Recent research shows it might actually be beneficial for couples to be friends before making the leap to an “official” relationship. This is just one of the reasons we encourage our clients to move at the pace they feel comfortable – even (and especially) if that means building your relationship on the foundation of friendship. We’ve compiled just a few reasons it might actually be a good idea to befriend your date before getting romantic.
Everyone has an opinion about something. Your mother has thoughts on your clothing choices, your siblings have ideas about where you should live, and your best friend wants to weigh in on your dates – but what happens when thousands of people also want to voice their opinions on your life? Nothing good, that’s for sure. Relationships are like fire: they need just a little bit of oxygen to ignite, but too much at once will extinguish the flame before it’s ever started to burn. Guarding your privacy is not just an issue of personal preference – it’s a matter of saving your relationship before overexposure extinguishes the whole thing. Our matchmaking services offer discrete dating, but there are a few additional ways to keep your personal life private:
Topics: dating tips
Everyone knows at least one serial dater in their lives – if you aren’t one yourself. Our matchmakers have seen it all: from people who never date the same person for more than a few weeks to others who have a new date every night. Serial daters are experts at starting relationships, but soon become dissatisfied and end each relationship quickly before moving on to the next one. New research shows this behavior might not be bad – it’s just a symptom of living in a big city and being left to find dates on your own without any help.
There are a lot of reasons people fall in love during the summer. Sun-kissed skin, poolside margaritas and warm vacation weather make it easy to relax, which also means you are more open to love. The endless date possibilities certainly don’t hurt, either: the pool, the beach, a picnic at the park… anything outside is fair game come summertime. Somehow, it’s just easier to fall for someone in the summer.
Whether you are a new client flying off to Paris for your first match or have been happily married for more than twenty years, Kelleher International wants to be your resource to make your journey of love wildly fulfilling, exciting, dynamic, and deeply passionate.
We’ll talk about strategies for dating success, navigating relationship land mines, and the mindset it takes to find love and make it blossom. We will put current events in the context of seeking love and even give you a little window into the match making business and how a centuries-old tradition continues to evolve in our modern world. The “right one” is out there for you, so check back weekly for updates or follow us on Twitter to make the most of our partnership in your future.
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Jill & Amber