We’ve all had bad relationships, but usually the red flags are obvious: aggressive behavior, inability to commit, emotional unavailability, etc. However, there is actually a subtler red flag that our matchmakers watch out for: the fantasy bond. This bond fools people into believing they are in a connected, loving relationship when the reality is that they are just faking their way through the motions of a relationship without actually putting any effort into it.
Research indicates that nearly 75 percent of Americans believe in soul mates. That’s a vast majority of the country’s population who believe there really is one “perfect” person out there for them. Whether relationships are determined by fate, destiny or choice, the truth is that even when you are with the right person, love takes work. Doubts are a natural part of forming relationships with other people. So, to the woman who might be wondering if her relationship is worth it – or to the woman who is single and wondering if love really is in the cards for her, our matchmakers have a few pieces of wisdom to help guide you through the storm.
New York City is saturated with single people, but unfortunately they are not all ready to mingle. In addition to an already imbalanced male-to-female ratio in NYC, today’s culture does not always promote lasting love. The problem is no longer finding someone – it’s about finding the right one. Our matchmakers have all the tools necessary to help locate that one perfect person in NYC who is on your level emotionally, physically and intellectually.
Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie have been at the forefront of tabloids lately with news of their pending divorce. Even our CEO, Amber Kelleher-Andrews, opened up to The Morning Show about her 2005 prediction that their relationship would face many challenges, including the pressures of celebrity, competition in the film industry, and even health concerns related to Jolie’s double mastectomy in 2013. While Pitt and Jolie have faced adversity from the start, their split will be eased by an ironclad prenuptial agreement.
First dates are full of uncertainty, but what if we could tell you how to click with someone almost instantly? Our matchmaking services are focused on finding someone who already shares many of your interests and viewpoints on the things that really matter. This sets you up for success from the very start and allows more room for the subtle art of connection. We have compiled our favorite tips and some scientifically tested psychological tricks to help you connect with your date right from the start.
There is no way to deny it: dating changes us. Somewhere between the good dates, the tragic endings and the wild stories you can’t wait to share with friends lie intimate truths about ourselves and the people we choose to spend time with. Our matchmakers have heard it all and we want to share this wisdom with you. Not every date will be perfect, but with the right wisdom you can make better choices in the future and maybe even partner with a professional matchmaking service for even better quality dates you can count on.
Relationships are meant to grow and evolve over time – and this includes overcoming conflict together. No two people in the world can agree on everything 100 percent of the time, but the beautiful thing about well-matched relationships is that our clients are better attuned to each other and are better equipped to talk out their problems, avoid extreme conflict and come out stronger for it. These eight secrets are the key to defusing almost any conflict in your relationship and can even help you and your partner build a closer bond over time.
Dating in the city seems easy. There are more proverbial fish in the sea, so it makes sense to assume dating prospects would also increase. Many city-dwellers are taken by surprise to find this is not always the case. City living has created a culture of people who value their personal space and private time, whether that happens at the office or on public transportation. Approaching a stranger in public is not always welcomed, which makes finding quality dates extremely difficult. Singles in the city take a lot of risks without enlisting the help of a reputable dating agency like Kelleher International. Our matchmakers have had success in large cities like London, Los Angeles and even NYC. Here are our best tips for keeping your cool while seeking a date in the city:
Planning a proposal is not a small task. The biggest dilemma is often the most important: the ring! This is one gift where the idiom “it’s the thought that counts” takes a backseat to whether the ring is the right size, style and stone. It takes some sleuthing to learn about your partner’s unique style, but our matchmakers have compiled a guide to help you pick the perfect engagement ring from the start so your engagement can be everything you – and your fiancée – hoped for.
Attraction is the biggest stepping stone in any relationship. The biggest house, newest car and most successful career are all great, but hold little bearing when it comes to whether your date will actually find you attractive. There are a few traits we’ve noticed all women seem to love in a man – and these traits are surprisingly difficult to cultivate. The few men who do possess these qualities find their dating pools are much larger, which ultimately leads to more control over their own dating lives and an easier time finding the woman they have dreamed of. Want to become irresistible? Here are our recommendations:
Whether you are a new client flying off to Paris for your first match or have been happily married for more than twenty years, Kelleher International wants to be your resource to make your journey of love wildly fulfilling, exciting, dynamic, and deeply passionate.
We’ll talk about strategies for dating success, navigating relationship land mines, and the mindset it takes to find love and make it blossom. We will put current events in the context of seeking love and even give you a little window into the match making business and how a centuries-old tradition continues to evolve in our modern world. The “right one” is out there for you, so check back weekly for updates or follow us on Twitter to make the most of our partnership in your future.
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Jill & Amber