July is my month of “tough love”. For certain people I drop my “soft” approach and I call them out on all their excuses which have gotten in the way of taking ACTION in finding “The One”.
There are always a million reasons that today-is-not-the-day to start your dedicated search for the right partner – but there is also one great reason why today is the day.
Nothing will bring you more happiness and deep fulfillment than finding “The One”, and everyday you don’t get a little closer, you actually are getting a little further away.
Does your physicality accurately represent how great you are? Your weight, your grooming and your wardrobe all reveal important things to potential matches.
Is your mentality radiating what you want to be attracting? Are you cynical but hoping to attract an optimist? Do you seek spontaneity when you're stuck in your same old patterns? Re-align and refresh!
Does your effort match importance? Examine your week and line up the amount of time you spent watching TV, at the gym, or even reading the paper, and compare that to dedicated time you put against finding “The One”. How should you spend your precious resources of time and money to more accurately reflect your priorities? Not sometime soon... but this coming week?
As of this writing, we are less than 60 days from Labor Day, less than 150 days from Thanksgiving, and reservations for the 10p seating on New Years at the Rainbow Room in NYC are already 85% sold out. Picture yourself in 60 days, 150 days and on New Years – are you taking the required steps to make sure you are spending those days (and nights) in the arms (or somewhere more intimate) of someone you love?