Winning Over Her Friends

Posted by Amber Kelleher on Aug 1, 2011 2:57:00 AM

One of the most important paths to a woman’s heart is through her friends. I’m talking about the girlfriends she’s known for ten years, the close friends she shares every detail with, the first call/text/email she makes when she gets home from a date. From age

14 to 40 and beyond, every woman has her set of “girls” that any guy who is being considered for marriage material must be passed by for inspection.

So how do you “win” this group over? Here are three steps in the right direction…

Treat Her Right The most important phrase you can elicit from her friends is “He treats her like a princess.” Ten times more important than how you treat her friends is how her friends see you treat her

Make Some Effort Just suggesting that you schedule a dinner with her and some of her girlfriends gets you two-thirds of the way to “he’s really trying to get to know my friends.”

Solve Problems We’ve all run into the friend that just didn’t like us. We’re all adults now, and a simple “I don’t think we got off to a great start, I’m sensing you’re not my biggest fan”, can both nip an emerging problem in the bud as well as start you down a path to resolution.

Don’t underestimate the importance of her friends’ opinions – get started today!

Topics: Relationships

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