The Best Dating Advice: Talk to Strangers & Find Love!

Posted by Kelleher International on Nov 6, 2015 7:45:40 AM

How many times do you remember a parent or trusted adult warning you not to talk to strangers as a child? Perhaps you give the same advice to nieces and nephews now that you’re grown. As a child, this is smart advice to follow. As an adult, however, this habit might keep you from discovering connections with really amazing people in your area.


Talking to strangers is scary, but there is no reason to let fear control your life. Even with the help of a professional dating service or executive matchmaking service, first dates can still feel like meeting a stranger. You’ll want practice so you can make an impression on the attractive person sitting across from you. Seize the day, leap into the unknown, and say “hi” to the cute stranger on the train! Your future relationships might depend on it.


Expand Your Social Circle

There is potential for a new friendship, networking opportunity, or even a romantic relationship to form each time you talk to someone new. Expanding your social circle is never a bad thing; it opens doors to future connections and exciting paths in life. Take a chance and see where the conversation goes. You might be surprised.


Alleviate Boredom

Waiting is boring. Having a conversation with someone while waiting is intriguing. Recent studies show people who engage in conversation enjoy time spent waiting much more than study participants who do not engage in conversation. Talking helps pass the time and keeps participants focused on each other instead of empty space. Do yourself – and that stranger nearby – a favor and say “hello.”


Cultivate Optimism

Many people underestimate the willingness of others to talk to them. Others simply don’t want to bother strangers or feel they would have nothing in common. Find your inner optimist and strike up a conversation anyway. Other people are surprisingly receptive to conversation when they know someone is interested in getting to know them.


Practice Your Skills

Talking to strangers is one of the best ways to prepare for a first date. Getting to know someone new builds confidence in your conversational skills and provides insight on what works and what doesn’t in the context of talking to someone new. Exclusive dating services can set you up with a compatible match, but in the end the result of that date lies on your shoulders. Will the conversation fall short or stand out? The choice is yours.


What Do I Say?

Anything! There is no right or wrong way to have a conversation, but there are some guidelines to achieve the best results. Try not to ask “yes” or “no” questions, as these can kill a conversation very quickly. Instead, ask where the other person got a unique piece of jewelry or what their thoughts are on the newspaper article they’re reading. Ask questions that imply you want the other person to elaborate. Listen carefully and offer a few details of your own to keep things going. Voila! Conversation started.


Life can change in an instant. Who’s to say this isn’t your instant? Strike up a conversation with the next person you see and discover the ways your horizons expand. Professional matchmaking services can help you meet the love of your life, but ultimately the conversation is up to you. Don’t let the moment slide. Choose to change your life today!

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