The New Year may not automatically mean coming up with a whole new you, but it certainly does have some interesting changes in store for anyone involved in a romantic relationship. Our matchmaking agency has been watching the trends and we’ve noticed a sizeable shift recently that we believe will be more noticeable in 2017. Daters are slowly moving away from the “disposable” dating culture that doesn’t value personal contributions and are quietly embracing a more meaningful approach to romance.
Divorce lawyers have seen it all: the good, the bad and the ugly. Not every divorce is a War of the Roses, but they aren’t spontaneous occurrences, either. Usually the events leading up to a divorce can be felt on both sides of a relationship long before the D-word is mentioned. Our matchmakers from NYC to San Francisco have located some of the best relationship advice – from divorce lawyers! Part one of a three-part series about relationship tips from the experts is bound to help save your relationship from disaster.
The D-word has ruined more lives than can be imagined; legal fees, emotional distress, and the uncertainty of where life goes next can all take a toll on divorcees. Celebrity is a unique dating obstacle, which is reflected in higher divorce rates and increased relationship satisfaction overall. Fortunately, divorce is not the end of the road. Many famous people find love after divorce and are now living their happily-ever-after, albeit a little later than planned.
Mary-Kate Olsen married beau Olivier Sarkozy in a private ceremony over Thanksgiving weekend. While Olsen and Sarkozy might seem an unlikely pair, their relationship makes a great deal of sense: Olsen is a self-starter running her own successful design business and Sarkozy is a banker of French origin who resides in the United States. Sarkozy, brother to France’s former President, Nicolas Sarkozy, is used to paparazzi and the rigors of fame that follow Olsen. Sarkozy and Olsen’s frequent trips to France, the world’s capital of fashion, are no doubt convenient for her design career. The pair have been dating for about three years; if you ask us, this wedding is long overdue! The key here is that it is possible to juggle fame, success, and a happy relationship all at the same time. Olsen conducts her life the same way she conducts her business: intelligently! Here’s what Mary-Kate Olsen can teach you about relationships:
News outlets have reported that Mark Zuckerberg is scheduled to take two months of paternity leave. Zuckerberg is currently expecting a baby girl with his wife, Dr. Priscilla Chan. The couple have not yet shared their due date, but it is clear they are very excited parents and look forward to giving their daughter plenty of time with her parents. Zuckerberg’s announcement does raise the question: is parental leave something employees are entitled to or should it simply be a matter of whether or not a person is lucky enough to work for the right company?
Most of us have heard about the self-made billionaire Tony Robbins. His bestselling books, Unlimited Power, Awaken the Giant Within and Money: Master the Game have enlightened thousands of readers across the globe and contributed to Robbins’ career as a motivational speaker. His theory of neuroassociative conditioning has helped great leaders like Bill Clinton, Mikhail Gorbachev and Princess Diana overcome their fears and accomplish more than they ever thought possible. Despite having a troubled childhood and lack of a college education, Robbins built a successful career and inspires thousands on a regular basis. While Robbins’ primary focus is on business strategy and financial management, his concepts are easily applied to building healthy, happy relationships.
“I’m convinced that about half of what separated the successful entrepreneurs from the non-successful ones is pure perseverance.”
The Apple Empire dominates the tech world even today, so one can’t help but wonder if Steve Jobs was right about what makes an entrepreneur successful. But what if this same concept was applied to relationships? Our matchmakers believe perseverance is part of what sets successful relationships apart from failed ones. From the time spent looking for that date to the actual hurdles that come between even the closest of partners, cool heads and a lot of patience are necessary to persevere as a couple. Replace the word “entrepreneurs” with the word “relationships,” and you can see how Jobs’ wisdom can be applied in your own life. So, what other love lessons can you learn from the tech visionary?
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How many times do you remember a parent or trusted adult warning you not to talk to strangers as a child? Perhaps you give the same advice to nieces and nephews now that you’re grown. As a child, this is smart advice to follow. As an adult, however, this habit might keep you from discovering connections with really amazing people in your area.
How many times have you been on a date with someone you really wanted to know, but the chemistry just wasn’t there? Maybe you were nervous or your date never really opened up. You were two attractive, accomplished people with similar life goals, so what gives? It’s more than likely that the reason you weren’t able to connect with your date was something so unbearably simple it has eluded even the most experienced daters for centuries: the conversation was bad.
Kelleher International’s upscale professional matchmaking services don’t end with the first successful date. Our matchmakers genuinely want your relationship to succeed, which is why we offer continued relationship guidance and engagement packages. Conflict resolution is another large part of any successful relationship, as the way couples face disagreements speaks to their personalities and ability to respect others. Our international matchmakers have developed five tips to prevent arguments altogether and promote constructive conversation.
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Whether you are a new client flying off to Paris for your first match or have been happily married for more than twenty years, Kelleher International wants to be your resource to make your journey of love wildly fulfilling, exciting, dynamic, and deeply passionate.
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Jill & Amber